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Improving Performance for Those With ADHD

Does Your To-Do List Just Get Longer?

How many times do you go through the day, and at the end of the day realize you didn’t get done half of what you intended?  But, how could that be possible, you were doing stuff all day!  This is a very common problem, for everyone.  Especially for people with ADHD.

 

Don’t feel bad, this doesn’t mean that you are not doing something right, or that you will never figure it out, even though you have tried EVERY personal productivity solution out there!  It just means you didn’t figure it out today.  But hold on, there is hope.

 

For those of us with ADHD there are a few reasons that we don’t get done what we would like.  Among them are:

 

·         Setting unrealistically high expectations

·         Working in environments that are not conducive to us getting the most work done (traditional settings are often quite challenging for ADDers)

·         Being easily distracted

·         Not effectively prioritizing our daily activities at the beginning of the day

·         Because we tend to work from the whole picture down to the pieces, it can be hard to figure out where to start on a particular task

 

Though each of these reasons, and there are more, deserve, in fact, require, their own solution and attention, there are a few things you can do to help things improve.

 

First, try to be realistic in your expectations of yourself.  If you think you already are, you may be right.  Then again, maybe you’re not.  Try taking your expectations of when a certain project will be done, and giving yourself and extra 10%, to allow for unexpected surprises (you know the ones, the kitchen sink overflows, flooding the kitchen, or the microwave catches on fire when your pre-teen inadvertently puts metal in there).  This can be very helpful in allowing yourself to give yourself a break!

 

Try to be in control of your environment.  If you work best with a little background noise but your office is constantly silent, try an iPod.  Listening to background music can help tune out the little noises that so often pull our attention away from the task at hand (just make sure it’s not your favorite music.  Singing along to the lyrics at work could be bad.  Funny, but bad).

 

Next Monday I will address some of the other challenges to getting our daily lists done.  And keep an eye out for an upcoming announcement that will help you clear that age-old to do list!

March 10, 2008 - Posted by Tracy Hoobyar | ADHD Kids, add, adhd, adhd at work, adhd meds, adult adhd, back-2-school, organization, parenting, parenting adhd | , , | 1 Comment

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  1. Hello Tracy:

    Thanks so much for adding your personal and positive voice to the ADHD community with ADDvantage for Life. As the web director for ADDitude magazine, I visit your blog as often as I can and I’m always blown away the gritty, informative, and inspiring words I find there and in other ADD blogs scattered across the web. Which is why ADDitude has recently launched its first-ever blog roll (http://www.additudemag.com/adhdblogs/2/index.html) – an online index of our very favorite ADD bloggers.

    We’re delighted to include links to ADDvantage for Life in our blog roll and we know that ADDitude readers will enjoy your real-world perspective as much as we do.

    We also know you’re always looking for new information about parenting children with ADHD and learning disabilities, so we’re inviting you to link to this exclusive sneak-preview article from our upcoming Summer Issue:

    Bullied No More!
    Help your child bridle the school bully with strategies used by 11-year-old author Shane Taylor to defeat his classroom nemesis.
    http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/3537.html

    We hope you agree that this article will be a great resource for your readers. And we also encourage you to turn them on to other expert information and free resources available on ADDitudeMag.com. We’ve got active discussion forums (http://www.additudemag.com/adhdforums/index.html), free Printables (http://www.additudemag.com/resources/printables.html), Expert Q&As (http://www.additudemag.com/resources/experts2.html), and nearly a decade worth of magazine articles (http://www.additudemag.com/additude/archives.html).

    We hope you’ll link to the ADDitude sneak preview above (the issue isn’t out for almost 3 weeks) and keep an eye on ADDitudeMag.com for the new content and tools we add each month.

    Thanks for your time and your great blog, we hope you’ll stay in touch as we both grow!

    Best,
    Anni Rodgers

    Comment by Anni Rodgers | April 18, 2008


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